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and don’t try to get them to change their mind. just have a conversation. you don’t even have to talk about the thing. you may learn something, but i bet that you’ll feel more connected in a broader sense after you do.
Jul 7, 2025

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Also remembering you don't need to have a strong opinion or pick sides on everything immediately (or even at all). I'm trying to be more humble with my judgement
Jul 8, 2025
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@ISBILTUR it’s also ok to say “i may be wrong” or “idk much about this”
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