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conflict resolution is a dying art! we should be able to disappoint & express our disappointment to the people we love or are in community with. having disagreements & resolving them honestly helps our relationships grow and in some cases deepens them 🧠
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😃i wish people were better at this. big sign of emotional maturity i think is when people are actually capable of this. things happen and if you can’t talk them through what are you meant to do? just let it stew so it gets worse? let it destroy a relationship for no reason? fuck all that. have the conversations so you can reach an understanding. we can’t read eachothers minds man
Jun 10, 2024
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🤝been trying to internalize the idea that disagreeing with friends about something deepens your understanding and expands your empathy for different views and experiences outside of your own. Having the trust that you can debate something without it ending the friendship will lead to more interesting conversations and a more substantive relationship. And having these conversations in person so you can see all the nuance and care for each other. It takes work, but I think it's worth it.
Feb 4, 2025
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😃if you don’t have anything constructive to say you could simply say “i think we’re in different parts of our lives and i don’t have the capacity for this type of friendship anymore”
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i’ve been rinsing these songs/albums like no ones business. KWN‘s “with all due respect“ is filled with 90s/early 2000s inspired R&B hits that have a modern lesbian twist ❤️🔥. Lauren Duffus makes music to soundtrack my dreams (.) it’s grungy, deconstructed, and honest. i’ve been listening to her music for a while.
her latest releases are very special to me & i think everyone should become a Lauren Duffus fan. Mahalia makes music to smile to I always dance+sing along. different type of love & instructions are my fave songs by her. Sasha Keable aka the Queen🇬🇧🇨🇴. to be honest i’ve listened to every song she’s put out an embarrassing amount of times. the sound of her voice is unforgettable, i can’t rememner the last time we had a voice like this in music and i’m anticipating her album …counting the days. BAMBII I love this album it’s so cohesive and refreshing its new to my rinse list but i’m already obsessed with the production.
Jul 18, 2025