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HOT TAKE!
I know I prob need to go touch grass for being as annoyed as I am right now, but I just was having a discussion with my friend and her gf about how it is wrong that everyone is mad at Billie Eilish and Clairo for dating men. My friends explained that they were mad because both singers have profited off of making sapphic songs but rarely, if ever, have had a publicly queer relationship. They said they see it as them choosing to date men because itās āeasierā and bc being queer isnāt as profitable as it once was.
That take just rubs me the wrong way because, in my eyes, you are still a bisexual woman even if you only date men throughout your whole life. If you feel sexual attraction to more than one gender, that means you are bi. No bisexual person should have to prove to the world that they are bisexual. Who are we to expect a certain relationship out of people?
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i think more bisexual people should try being nice and normal to lesbians.
there is just so much energy from our community being wasted on complaining about how hard it is to be a woman with a (cis and/or het) boyfriend. Actually, itās fine. just leave him at home sometimes
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āthereās nothing wrong with themā -my gf
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