đ€
Boundaries. At work youâre coworkers, not dating. Do not bring your dating relationship into the work place.
Be realistic going into it. Know thereâs a likelihood youâll have to manage hurt/hard feelings if it ends. Thatâs part of why you keep the work relationship separate. You can use that as a natural way of being at work, even if it ends.
What you canât do it play out shit at work, if youâre together or not. Keep. It. Separate. Have this conservation and agreement beforehand.
5d ago
Comments (2)
Make an account to reply.
Definitely!! I value professionalism so much which is why I'm so apprehensive đ”âđ« hmm will ponder more, ty Mossy đ
5d ago
@SILLYGIRLTYPEBEAT like, the ideal is that nobody knows youâre even together. I work sort of with my husband and everyone obviously knows we are married, but Iâve had coworkers say they forget we are even together because we just do not act like that when we are in meetings together.
5d ago
Related Recs
đ
idk... i mean if you guys end up missing each other and wanting to try to make it work, you will. taking some time apart so that you can both consider your lives without each other is not a bad thing, but if you get to the point you'd rather be with than without.... make it work.... people are like "dont move for a man" or woman or what have you but i personally believe in love.......
see clip attached. "perfect" and "so in love" doesnt come around every day....
May 6, 2024
đ
i had an insane crush in 2019 on my friend and i completely lost my head it got pretty unhealthy at one point especially after she started dating this other dude so i had a talk with her and we both were like we want to be in eachothers lives for sure but i had to be like this as is does not work i canât hear about your relationship problems while i feel like this. didnât talk to her much for about a month or so and then i went to new york and we hung out it was great and normal and now im great friends with both her and that guy, sheâs still with him. canât even imagine seeing her through a romantic lens anymore. every time we are in the same place we see each other and itâs always just so lovely
but yeah all that to say i think just have to have a super honest conversation where you draw boundaries clearly and figure out where to go from there what both of you need etc
Jun 10, 2024
đ
i am friends with my most recent ex, we dated for five years and our relationship was basically just friendship at the end. we didnt rly have a break between dating and friendship so there was a weird boundary blur (eg. overly involved emotionally in his life/being his therapist) and i had to take a big step back. definitely take time apart. now we have a lot of distance and hang out once in a while but not too often n it's a good balance of not having any weird grudge post-break up but also not having a strange pseudo emotional relationship still. all this to say... take ur time! listen to ur gut! set boundaries for urself! take space!
Mar 12, 2024
Top Recs from @mossyelfie
May 31, 2025
In Tarot, The Fool is the first card in the Major Arcana, which represents the life cycle. These cycles we are continuously going through in our lives, not just once. The final card of the Major Arcana is The World (which I have tattooed very large on my thigh), which signifies the completion of a cycle and natural ascension into the next. We are then thrust back into the Fool, with a bit more wisdom.
The Fool as an archetype is one of joy, curiosity, spontaneity, and trust. The Fool is pure of heart, knowing that the Universe has got their back. This innate trust allows The Fool to be playful, to take risks, and truly believe everything will work out. The more we go through life and experience loss, grief, heartache, trauma, the harder it becomes to embrace this energy. Iâve found that as healing goes on, just as itâs shown in tarot, we return to this natural state of being. We start off as The Fool when we are wee little babies, and if we are lucky can return there a few cycles at a time, with more wisdom gained each time. Â
The goal of The Fool is to have positive experiences, maybe for fun, maybe to grow. There is an acceptance with The Fool, a kind of âthis is what is, how can I make this work well for me?â Everything works out for The Fool because they donât know it canât. Anything we go through in life, we can use to grow. I personally believe we all could benefit embracing the archetypal energy of The Fool a bit more. The Fool doesnât stop to worry what other people will think! The Fool does not fret about what ifâs! The Fool is in the moment!
Jun 1, 2025
đ
Humans have always danced. It is part of who we are, yet we have been conditioned to be self conscious, to think that we do not move our bodies good enough. Dancing is beyond judgement. Dancing is not a skill, it is our soul moving through our bodies, expressed in movement. Dancing is healing. Dancing is bodily autonomy. Dancing is FUN! Any feeling you are feeling can be moved through with dance yet even alone, you fear looking foolish. Kill the judge in your mind, shut the fuck up, and MOVE đ
Apr 24, 2025